What women want...

Maybe I've been ensconsced in alternative lifestyles for too long. In fact, I probably have. But as I've been working on XBDSM and Spankslut and some other sites, I've been noticing all kinds of webmasterly discussions about "porn for women," and what women want and expect in porn. The consensus seems to be, basically, that women DO NOT want big hard cocks ramming their cunts. They want romance. They want gentle lovemaking. They want to be seduced and teased.

Well... ermmmmmmm... all that is really nice and all, and can be lots of fun. But if that is all there is to your sex life.... well, no wonder so many sex lives fizzle and die. Because truthfully most of the women I know enjoy sex that takes them beyond their brains. Sex that makes all thought stop, whatever form it takes. Sex that completely turns off your worries about your broken dishwasher or you fucking minivan or taking the kids to school or whatever else happens to be buzzing around your busy brain. And I don't know... maybe it's just ME and all the women I know... but all this romancing can get kind of trite and boring awfully quickly.

This brings me right back to the hitachi magic wand. I believe that part of the reason women LOVE the hitachi is that it gives you, unlike ANY other toy, instant INTENSITY. It starts out HARD, from the very first moment it touches you you are gasping and your entire being becomes focused on your clit. It's impossible to do otherwise. It's a release from your brain, and becoming one with your clit, and becoming totally immersed in pleasure, pleasure, and nothing but intense, hard, almost painful it's so good, pleasure.

I dunno, seriously... what do you guys think? I also wonder how this plays in with the fact that this "reality" porn which has sprung up all over the 'net has overwhelmingly leaned towards extreme sex... humiliation, rough sex, things like that... is it that the chicks are all exploring their sexuality this way or is it that guys are pushing it on them? Because I love a lot of that stuff...but I know not everyone does!

Members update info: C has been out of town all week which has had me moping and not wanting to play. I'm sorry! But we'll do some pics this weekend and maybe a video and we are working on the blog and maybe... camshows? Soon to cum.... :)

Help with my links....

Hey guys, I just wanted to say that I have noticed that a lot of curvygirl sites are... well, not to beat around the bush (or lack thereof in my case), circle jerks. That means they have a ton of pop-up windows, or pop-UNDER windows which wind up leading the surfer (that's you) on a merry chase trying to close all the windows before your computer goes nutso. I *hate* sites like that. I am trying very hard not to link to any. It's a shame, really, because I've seen some very cute plump girls out there whose sites just beat surfers over the head. I don't want to treat *my* surfers that way, so I won't link to them. I believe that if a site pisses ME off with pop-ups, unders, etc, it is probably going to piss YOU off.

If you happen to come across a site like that, please send me the link! I will end my link trade with them. This is just my personal preference... I guess I could probably make more money by abusing the folks that come to gawk at me, but it just isn't my way. So keep me informed if you come across a link like that!

BTW I have a new email address you can use to contact me anytime. It is tamara*at*xxxtamara.com! :) And just in general if you ever have any kind of problem with ANY of my sites, please contact me ASAP and let me know so I can fix it for you. :) Thank you guys for reading, looking, gawking, and everything else you do!

Meet the Machines....

I have posted links to the fucking machines website many times. I even got to try one once, another of those Vegas stories. We were at the Red Rooster and someone was there with a dildo mounted on a powerdrill, so the cock part rotated very, very, very fast. You actually had to be really careful with it or you could get hurt; plenty of lube was a MUST!!!! It was so intense I could only take it for a few minutes at a time. My girlfriend however, threw herself into it with abandon and spent an hour or so shrieking and cumming. *sigh* I'm just a beginner slut sometimes!

Anyways, I have never actually gone and looked at the Meet the Machines page before... it is CRAZY! They have a description of each one, plus an animation so you can see how it moves. It is pretty neat... go check it out! Also if you are looking for some free porn tonight, I have updated my naughty BDSM galleries at Spankslut!

Notes from the blogosphere....

Former governor of MD Donald Shaeffer demanded that an attractive woman come back to him so he could watch her walk out of a room twice... in front of about 100 people. He doesn't understand what all the ensuing fuss is about, and says *he* is the one offended.

Actually I guess if he'd done it privately it would've been even worse... right?

I remember him coming to my high school when I was about.. hmmm, 15, 16 or so. Old codger!

You'd think he'd be old enough to know that it's not so much *looking* that is at issue here. It's more his treatment of women in general that is problematic. I look at women, all the time, and I don't think it's about demeaning them. It's about recognizing how beautiful they are, and showing appreciation as their hips sway by me unabashedly. (Because, mostly, they don't THINK I'm looking!)

I don't think there is a thing wrong with being a dirty old horny man. In fact I hope C is one, because I fully plan to be a dirty old horny woman! Stay tuuuuuuuuuned for my "granny gangbangs" site when I'm 100! LOL! :) But there IS something wrong with referring to your employees as little girls. There *is* something wrong with demanding a woman perform for you in a business setting. There's a time and place for everything Donald... learn a little decorum!

Speaking of dirty old men, I saw this on Susie Bright's blog and just had to share it with you. Do you think it's a real tattoo????

Don't miss the Dildo Song. I am probably going to get arrested for singing it all day long today, so be careful... but the video is hilarious!

Soooooooooooo fast!!!!

So fast, so fast, so fast... the new pics are up! Me and cable internet, working together. Woo hoo!!!! 92 pics right here!

60 and counting...

The set of photos I'm working on now... I have SIXTY so far, there are a ton and they are kinda yummy. (Except for the one part where I was trying to be a good cumrag AND hold the camera. That did not work out so well. Lesson learned!) But I wanted to give you one pic for patience, this is number 60. :)

Also I wanted to give a shout-out to my friends over at BBW Press Blog, who sent me so many good wishes on my wedding and dirty bride pics. Thanks guys!!! :)

Also I wanted to ask... have you guys had any wicked nasty evil dirty thoughts about girls in wedding dresses? If so, I want to know! After all, I'm never going to wear it again... :)

Greedy...

You guys are greedy greedy greedy. But I love you for it and I have good news for you. I have officially entered the Internet Age (said with booming voice and special nifty dolby-style sound effects!). My horny friends...

I... have... CABLE.

You who do not live out in the boonies have no idea how massive this is. Up until now I've been struggling along with satellite internet. Which, C informs me with his supersmart networking-programming-computerknoweverything brain, will ALWAYS have a certain level of redudancy due to the fact that the data has to travel so FAR before it gets to you. ie: computer A, SPACE, computer B. But even so, our satellite sucked ass leagues beyond that. It went out if there was A CLOUD in the sky. I mean ANY cloud. Sometimes a bird would fly by and I'd be 'net-less immediately.

Uploading things with satellite is impossible. It's actually, believe it or not, FASTER to use... DIAL UP. Dialup at 46k is faster to upload, than Satellite internet.

But even using dialup, uploading a set of 30 pics approx 130kb a piece, would take me about 4 hours. The connection dies, see, so you have to disconnect, reconnect, start the transfer again... etc... it would take me forever and was absolutely one of the most agonizing parts of running my lovely little site.

NOW... I can upload 75 pics at average 200kb a piece in TWO MINUTES. It is lightening fast! It is worth enduring spending the day with a very smelly cable tech who thought you had to quit IE and restart it for anything to change. IT WAS ALL WORTH IT!!!!

*panting*

Now, about those pics. I have to finish editing them. Which I could not do today due to above smelly cable guy being over my shoulder all day long. But hopefully will be done by tomorrow. And now I have ten zillion other projects which I had put off in hopes of cable, which will hopefully move forward. Like that members blog I've been pondering... :)

Hey!!! HAPPY VALENTINES DAY!!!! :) Yesterday I was sitting here working (on those pics) and C came over and started humping my face (he does that from time to time), and next thing I knew his cock was out and my pants were in a heap in the corner of our office and I was dragging him into the bedroom where he fucked me silly. SILLY! Then I had to masturbate more, 'cuz I love masturbating when my pussy is full of cum. I mean, who doesn't? :) Yum!

Perfect day....

This was absolutely a perfect day. Actually starting with last night, when C and I did a naughty photoshoot with me playing with tons of toys and a glass dildo and ending with me covered in cum. C meant to cover my face, and did (I have the photos to prove it), but a good bit dripped all into my hair by the nape of my neck. But I was tired after that and went to sleep instead of washing my hair. I do have a lot of hair, and it takes forever to dry!



So this morning, I woke up, worked on my sites for a while, and then C and I took a long hike with our dog, snowflakes falling all around us. The snow's been making me feel all peaceful and yummy, too! Then we got home, had a quick lunch, and dashed out the door to go see Syriana. At no point here did I have a chance to wash my hair!

FINALLY... home from the movie, the snow really really coming down by now, I sink into a hot tub and lie flat on my back, looking out the window at the snowflakes. I can't help thinking how lucky I am, to have this amazing man who adores me and puts tons of cum in my hair and then takes me all over town all cum upon (I have a lot of hair! No one noticed!), plus this amazing luxury of a hot tub of water to sink into while snowflakes drift down outside. I'm just feeling very grateful and appreciative and happy today.

Then, after my shower I worked some more on my photos... then went and sat on C's lap, and next thing I knew, had a pussy full of cum...

Back to square one I guess... :)


This is me about to kick my puppy out of our bed so we could take pics in it last night! I have no idea how to get the "white" out of pets eyes. I can do people's eyes, but not pets yet.

Shout outs....

I have been working and working on my sites lately... most of you are aware I have a *lot* of them, but they do take a lot of time and maintenance and I have been a major slacker in regards to that over the past few years. So I've been working on my sites, like cleaning up the links over at xbdsm.com and adding new ones, building new free sites to promote xxxtamara.com and amateurslaves.com (want to see a few? click here and here and maybe even here!), and trying to get good link trades for this blog.

My blog seems to be a bit different from a lot of the ones I've seen out there... as an old time webslut who's been bumping around the web in her own little confused way since about 1998, I have to laugh when I see that "reality porn," is a whole new category. I have been doing reality porn since Day 1, except that I always just called it *real.*

But this blog (and site) is really based on my real life, as my sites have always been. Some of the blogs I actually find a little bit offensive when I can tell the webmaster is pretending to be someone he/she is not in order to sell memberships to a site. How do you guys feel about that??? For whatever reason it's always been more interesting and more exciting for me to just be brutally honest and real, with all the good and bad involved.

Well anyways I have had a few webmasters kind enough to hook me up with links on their sites, and you should go check them out! Boogie is another webmaster I remember from waaaaaaaaay back in the day, way before me (and much much harder working than me anyways), and he has linked me up on a bunch of his blogs. First, BoogieBlog! Then he has the PornCynicBlog, which I found very interesting. Check out that gallery of the Soprano's girl... it really is as bad as he says! Boogie also runs the Bite-Sized Sex Blog (sounds like fun!), and his newest project Pornogomy! One thing I love about Boogie's blogs is that he never pretends to be anyone other than who he actually IS... a horny guy who loves porn. What's not to love about horny men?!?!? :)

The only thing better than horny men, must be horny women... and Ana is another webmaster who happens to have mighty cute legs and wears awfully pretty stockings every once in a blessed glimpse on HER blogs. She has two, Ana's Porn Blog, and Erotic Porn Blog. I like Ana's blogs a lot, and am hoping for more sexy glimpses down the road. ;)

Thanks guys, for the links!!!! :) Although of course there is always the option of much more up close and personal thanks... *sigh*.... then again, I guess I can't assume I can seduce EVERYone...

Found pics....

So I was moping around yesterday because it is SO COLD out... here I am all spoiled by how nice and warm it was all last week (in the 60's!), now having to deal with the fact that it really is still winter and it is going to snow this weekend. *sigh* I was feeling very nostalgic for summer, and started thinking of all the fun summer pics we've taken... and wondering, what the heck happened to them??? The end result is that I found some pics from my birthday in 2003 (August!), where I tried out the new Sybian C had bought me and was able to bounce in the moonbounce he rented me, naked, all day... LOL! I think you'll enjoy those pics! I actually posted one of them here on my blog once before, but never posted the whole set...



Now, there are more!


Enjoy!

My announcement...

Well, my announcement is... C & I got married. Really, truly, honestly, married in Vegas!


It just goes to show that C is definitely the perfect man for me when I discovered that he was plotting and planning all the dirty things he'd do to me in my wedding dress before we even got off the plane... :)


There are quite a few pics of me on my wedding night in the members section for you to enjoy... I hope no one gets themselves into a panic or a tizzyfit (either!) and thinks I will no longer be a cockhungry slut. C *loves* that I'm a cockhungry slut, and he has btw, my very favorite cock attached to his body. Isn't it nifty how that works???


I must say it was a lot of fun wearing that dress all over Vegas, looking so innocent and sweet... and the dress really *did* make me look innocent which is of course, so unlike me! :) Not to mention that there is just something fun about wearing a wedding dress! Well I'd been dying to post here about it, but felt that the members of xxxtamara.com were priviledged to hear it first, and they did! But now the pics are all up and the dirty bride slut is clearly out of the bag... :)

Post Superbowl Fun...

I don't watch the Superbowl, although I have been reading while it was on TV... I saw the halftime show with Mick Jagger (is it just me, or is he a little bit... er... yanno... well, maybe he swings BOTH ways?), and a few commercials, but apparently I missed the good ones!

Whether you're feeling let down, or you're celebrating, you're bound to enjoy the new pics I've posted in the members section... :)

Laughing through political turmoil.

OK libs, go to google.com, type in the word "asshole," and click the "I'm feeling lucky" button. This is an anti-bush thing (of course) so you may not want to attempt this if you're a Bushie. Seriously! But it is excellent! Funny and horribly sad all at once. Like Lisa of AllHatNoCattle says, we have to try to laugh through political turmoil...And don't miss her coverage of the SOTU speech, it is fantastic! I love the kittens joke :)

Babblesome....

Well I thought you guys might enjoy a totally un-sex-related photo of me at Red Rock Park in Nevada... I'm *still* going through all the Vegas pics!!!! It is so time consuming! I really, of course, *wanted* to do some risque photos out here... but there were just too many people around. Next time... :)



Check out this video clip of Jon Stewart's coverage of the State of the Union speech, absofuckinglutely hilarious! Hey did anyone else catch that "human-animal" hybrid thing Bush was babbling about? ............... I don't think I need to say anything else at all about that, do I?

I know I'm behind on some things... It's all C's fault, he was out of town this week and when he's gone I can't focus and can't get anything done!!!

First orgasms....

I had my first orgasm when I was really, really young. I mean young! :) I was precocious!!!! I used to take showers in my mom's bedroom because her shower had a shower massager. (Ah-HA!) I had no idea what a shower massager was for, but her shower was just nicer. One day I was washing my pussy and just... well... kept going. I started to cum, and stopped, heart pounding. I thought I was DYING. I stood there a few minutes, heart pounding, clit throbbing, and decided to try again.

The rest is history for me. I really was precocious and got into things very, very young, and I know that. From playing doctor with the little boys next door, to stealing my brother's porn magazines, I never stopped. Every once in a while I'd get a horrible attack of acute guilt, and tell myself I was bad! "Good girls don't do this!" I'd resolve to be better, throw out all the magazines (yeah, they weren't mine to begin with, but I was a kid! Maybe 9 or 10!), and promise not to do it anymore. Promise myself, that is. I always wound up deciding to do it again after a while though. I wish I'd known that it was totally normal and nothing to be ashamed of *then!*

I loved Hustler because it was, at that time, the only magazine to show COCK. It only showed cocks through gauzy curtains and shadowed, never just clear, big, beautiful cock. The focus was really on pussy, but now Hustler does show cock more openly.

So how about you? What were your first masturbatory experiences like?

Members update....

25 new pics posted today folks, I hope you enjoy them... they are accompanied by what is a pretty big announcement for me, so goooooooooooooo check it out ASAP! I'll make the same announcement here on Monday to catch everyone up!

Jelly toy dangers....

I've had several people mention this to me in passing, but now someone finally forwarded me an article... about the dangers of jelly sex toys. Jelly sex toys were probably the very first kind I ever had. Did anyone else ever notice the problems with them where they'd develop black spots as time went on? Well, it turns out that that is a sign of the jelly material breaking down and releasing some bad stuff that no one would want near their genitalia. Seriously, this sucks! And now I am curious about my non-silicone buttplugs... I love them because they have more give than a silicone one would (they are the two layer kind), but now I am unsure if they are made of a similar material. They don't feel like jelly, but they definitely aren't silicone, so what the heck ARE they??? *Yikes!*

For most people I'd venture to say that their toys have probably not spent enough time in them to do any real damage, but... who wants to take a chance anyways???? Buy some nifty silicone toys instead!!!! Here's the link to the article.

Hey speaking of bizarre stories, has everyone seen this music video featuring David Hasselhoff biting fish? It is truly a feat of bizarreness unseen before in my life!